Bereaved mother’s safety appeal

A mother who lost her son in a fatal road accident in Aberdeenshire is appealing for parents to get involved in teaching their children about road safety.

Saturday, 27th October 2012, 2:46 pm

June Ross’s son Ian Buchanan was a passenger in a car which was involved in a two-vehicle collision on the B993 Kemnay to Monymusk road in June 2010.

Since her son’s death, two days before his 23rd birthday, Miss Ross has set up a support group called Don’t You Forget About Me (DYFAM), for people in the north-east whose lives have been affected by road accidents.

She has now joined forces with the Safe Drive Stay Alive campaign to encourage parents to take action and ensure their children take their responsibilities on the road seriously.

Safe Drive Stay Alive runs an annual roadshow, attended by all fifth-year pupils in Aberdeen City and Shire and Moray. The thought-provoking stage show and film, running this year from Monday, November 5 to Thursday, November 8, tells the story of a tragic road accident, and includes presentations from emergency service staff and volunteers and a bereaved parent who all appear on stage to deliver their message live.

A free evening show for the public takes place at the Beach Ballroom in Aberdeen on Wednesday, November 7 from 7.15pm. Miss Ross is calling on parents to go along to the free evening session to see what is involved and find out for themselves what are the biggest road safety issues concerning young people.

She said: “Only last month a car with four young men inside it careered into my garden. One lad had to be cut free from the car unconscious and taken to hospital with bleeding on his brain.

“It was a sickening and horrifying reminder that while the accident numbers are dropping, youngsters are still involved in serious and avoidable collisions in the north-east.

“As parents we have to take some responsibility for teaching our children how to stay safe on the roads and try to ensure they’ve got the right attitude when they get behind the wheel.

“If you are a parent whose child is learning to drive, or will be soon, I would urge you to go along to the Safe Drive Stay Alive show and see what it’s all about. Particularly if your child has left school and will not see the show for themselves, go along and take them with you.

“In fact anyone who travels as a passenger or drives a car should go, to see the lasting and long-term effects of devastation and grief it can have on a huge sphere of people.”

The roadshow is designed to help reduce the number of young people involved in fatal or serious road collisions in Grampian, by shocking them into thinking about the reasons behind accidents and their consequences.

For more information about the evening session, contact Kate Rigby on 01467 628439 or email [email protected], or just come along on the night.

More information on Safe Drive Stay Alive can be found at, or ‘Like’ the Facebook page: Safe Drive Stay Alive (Grampian).